Tuesday, January 31, 2012
Sunday, January 29, 2012
newmalefashion: Head Over Heels
newmalefashion: Head Over Heels: Deep Style High Heels for Cool Guys The real showpiece, the finishing touch for any getup, is a fine pair of high heels. If hot stilett...
Saturday, January 28, 2012
Thursday, January 26, 2012
newmalefashion: Andrej for Madame Figaro
newmalefashion: Andrej for Madame Figaro: Madame Figaro Japan Model Andrej Pejic Source Haus of Andrej Pejic Via Nono-Tea http://madamefigaro.jp/ Related Encounter wi...
Thursday, January 19, 2012
high heels for men: Man wearing his favorite high heels
high heels for men: Man wearing his favorite high heels: He wears a nice outfit, proper indeed for men too.
Monday, January 16, 2012
Hosiery For Men: Reviewed: Trasparenze Sophie 70 Tights
Hosiery For Men: Reviewed: Trasparenze Sophie 70 Tights: I recently reviewed the Trasparenze Cortina 100 denier opaque tights which I acquired from Legs and Stockings . I was keen to try more Tras...
high heels for men: Man posing in high heels
high heels for men: Man posing in high heels: More at heelman500 flickr account
Saturday, January 14, 2012
Many people reading this column may know little about Transgendered people’s lives
Transgender refers to a range of behaviors, identities and expressions which challenge the rigid bipolar gender system in our society. In our culture, people labeled “male” at birth are expected to conform to masculine stereotypes, identify as heterosexual and be content with the category “man.” People termed “female” are required to be “feminine” straight women by conventional society and are bound by a patriarchal system which systematically devalues and oppresses women. Anyone who strays from the strict categorizations of gender traditionalism and heterosexuality are often called “freaks,” “perverts,” and “deviants” and are considered outcasts by mainstream society.
Since the 1990s, the Transgender Liberation Movement has been fighting back against gender ideology and is attempting to cast gender as a civil rights issue on both the national and international stage. Many people reading this column may know little about Transgendered people’s lives, and may wonder: what does transgender have to do with me? There are many reasons why Transgenderism matters to you. Here are some important ones to reflect upon and to begin the conversation:
YOU may be transgender. Approximately 5% of the population have gender identities or expressions which place them into the Transgender population. Transgender refers to people who do not fully identify with the gender assigned to them at birth. This includes folks who permanently cross the gender divide as well as people who “trans” it occasionally and who blur the categories altogether. Transgender is an umbrella term which includes cross-dressers, transsexuals, transgenderists, drag queens, drag kings, gender queers and a plethora of other gender-diverse constituencies. If you experience a frequent discomfort with your assigned sex or if you desire to dress in clothing associated with the “opposite” gender, you may be Transgender. While it is difficult to come out as Trans, there are many people out there to support you in your unique gender journey. Stand tall and be proud of who you are; revel in your chose gender expression and realize that you are not alone.
Transsexual
You probably know someone who is Transgender. “SOFFA” refers to Significant Others, Friends, Family and Allies of the Gender Community. Even if you yourself are not Trans, the chances are strong that you will discover that someone in your circle of friends and families identifies as gender-different. As more and more Trans people bust open the closet door, their friends and family members undergo a “coming out” of their own. As a persecuted minority, us Trannies need the support, loyalty, love and compassion of those close to us. If you are the Loved One of a Trans person, examine your own fears and biases and increase your cultural competency of gender issues. Reach out to your Trans friends and family members and offer them your unconditional love, even if you do not fully understand. Too many Trans people lose their family members or partners when they come out or are thrown our of the house; this needs to change and starts with each SOFFA taking a stand and deciding to stand by the Trans Loved One.
Discrimination against any human being is wrong.
Transgender people face employment discrimination, are denied housing, are the victims of hate crimes, and are laughed at, derided and degraded on the streets and in the community. Transgender people are viciously and brutally murdered every month in this country in horrific violent attacks.
Transphobia refers to the irrational fear and hatred of folks who cross, blur or transgress the traditional gender categorizations of male and female. Transphobic attitudes lead to institutional discrimination that oppresses Trans people and causes much undue physical, economic and emotional distress and suffering. The hopeful news is that it doesn’t have to be this way! Each and every one of us has the power to make a difference and to improve the world for all our fellow human beings. Take a stand against transphobia and work to challenge your own assumptions around gender.
The Transgender Liberation Movement is a fight for freedom and justice which intersects with other social justice struggles. Feminism, the anti-racism movement, the LesBiGay Movement, the movement for Economic Justice and the Disability Rights Movement (to name but a few) are all deeply intertwined with the movement for Gender Freedom. The powers-that-be succeed because they count on oppressed people fighting against each other, squabbling over a sliver of the pie while the ruling class enjoys the lion’s share of economic power and institutional resources. By pitting us against each other, they prevent us from organizing and winning real social change. In order to be victorious in our movement for Gender Liberation, we must unite and learn to link our diverse struggles for emancipation
The Transgender Movement is fundamentally about GENDER and thus it is an issue which affects ALL of us. Is anyone really 100% male or 100% female? Doesn’t everyone, in one way or another, differ from the socially-constructed notion of a “real man” or a “real woman?” Every person I know has felt limited, constrained or devalued for exhibiting “opposite” gender traits, behaviors or mannerisms at some point in their life, and what a shame that is! Each and every one of us are a complex mixture of male and female, masculine and feminine. No one should be made to feel shame or guilt for expressing the full range of human emotions and behaviors, for they are our unique and Goddess-given birthright. Gender is not a black-or-white proposition; rather, there exists an infinite rainbow of innovative options.
I hope that after reading this you look at “Transgender” in a slightly new way and that you challenge yourself and others to become a Trans Ally: a person who speaks out against gender-phobia and who celebrates the beauty of Gender Diversity. I for one think it's past the time to remove gender from clothing and allow human beings to be true to them self's and allow men to wear what they wish from just high heels to full feminine style of dress that is what we call the feminine gender system in our society today. So take the first step in stopping hate and transphobic attitudes.
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Tuesday, January 10, 2012
high heels for men: Manager wearing high heels at his desk
high heels for men: Manager wearing high heels at his desk: You can see the original photo at iStockphoto
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